February, 2020 | Rosa M Luna

I have a client that would like to keep track of her Boyfriend. Would you like to know how?

Use the 360 app and enter his phone number on the app and follow instructions. There you go!

Be careful that you do not ask him what he was doing at that place for hours for if he finds out he will turn off his phone and you will be more confused and upset not knowing where he was. But if you do not trust that person what the heck are you doing with that person?

What kind of relationship is that? How desperate are you? Really! Is this the kind of relationship you want?

I know you are not happy having this “suspicious mind,” constantly wondering who he could possibly be with. Checking his e-mails, his Facebook and checking his underwear while doing his laundry… Yes, how desperate is that?

But why are you attracting this kind of man? “Law of attraction”, that is why.

How often has this happened? STOP THIS OBSESSION! It will drive you crazy…!

“But it’s hard to find someone, I will feel lonely.”

OK, what should you do? What do you feel you should do? Do you really want to live like this?

No, it does not feel like fun to me. He is not making you happy. Can you change him? Why is he looking for another love?

Maybe he is looking for someone who can give him what he is not receiving at home with you. Remember how that person was when you both first met? What did you guys enjoy doing together? After sex, did you guys talk? Did you share stories, made each other laugh? How’s your communication? Are you approachable still? Or are you always too irritable, no longer easy to talk to? How does he respond to you? Is your Pride interfering with your relationship?

When you are in a relationship it is a give-and-take by both of you and definitely do not count the sins and who has been kinder to whom more of the time.

Try changing your words it might not be easy at first, but the change of words, and trying much more kindness and a different kind of friendship, communication is very important.

Kind words, compliments are good too. If you really want this relationship to work, it takes work in thoughtfulness and kindness.

If you feel the other person is not trying to save this relationship then you have a decision to make. It will hurt at first, but your happiness depends on you.

Unfortunately, it’s your happiness that counts and its a choice you make. No one else can make that choice for you.

God Bless!

Hello my name is Rosa M. Luna from St. Paul’s Free University. I am here to talk to you about “LOVE” since valentine’s Day is just around the corner, Is there someone you feel love for? A man friend, a girlfriend, your kids, a husband…Valentines day is a holiday for us to remember those we love. It used to be just for lovers, or the person you are with. But now even your little children bring you a valentine’s card made with love and they’re own little hands. Aw…Now they still do the same thing, with the phone things, HAPPY VALENTINES MOM, LOVE YOU! HAPPY VALENTINES DAY DAD! AW… I feel so fortunate that they remembered me, they lead such busy lives, working, making dinner after work, basketball, the kids, grocery shopping, I understand.

I remember working in an office where some of us were single parents or just plain single too busy to have someone in our lives. Feeling sorry for ourselves. So I decided to make us some valentines envelops like we did in school remember? The large envelops I decorated with hearts and placed everyone’s name on it and hung them on people office doors or dividers and requested everyone who wanted to participate to bring chocolate candy, cookies or something and a valentines card saying one nice thing of why you appreciated that person and placed them in their envelope, It turned out to be Fun! It caught on and we did this every year.

So, what does this story have to do with the seven symptoms of being in love? This was just a good valentine’s story to share. But the seven symptoms of being in love yourself. Have you ever been in Love? This is a different heavy-duty kind of love. Been in love and being in “lust “are two different feelings” being in love out last the newness of a fresh relationship. there is so much emotional feelings here. The attraction, the chemistry is so strong. Who wants to talk? Sex is Amazing!!! Your other desire and the excitement is to see each other again. Symptom #1 one: The excitement of seeing each other again, sometimes you might feel butterflies in your stomach, I remember that feeling? This reminds of something my mother told me about being in love and feeling the butterflies. I asked my Mother about those feelings and she said, if you are asking than you do not know the difference between love and a bowl movement… BUT that is exactly how you feel when you are excited to see this person again. or is it a warning? You’ve heard the saying, ” listen to your gut feeling”.

Symptom # 2- Can’t stop smiling = when you think about that person it makes you smile. Symptom #3-that person makes you feel happy, do you remember happy. You also are nice to other people, your co-workers, your computer crashed and it does not bother you. “the world is going to end”, you don’t care. They’ve been saying that for decades and were still here!

Symptom #4 -the newness of the relationship -You are in love There is still a newness feeling left over and it feels good, you are now in a relationship with his person. You feel this person is the one. You feel emotionally, mentally and physically secure with this person. Never once did you feel judged by that person.

Symptom # 5- You’re at ease with this person – You feel loved by this person and its easy to share your stories with each other, this person makes you feel at ease been yourself, you feel secure and safe when you are with person. When you are not with this person you have a sense of peace and fulfillment all over you. You can’t stop thinking of that person, so you text that person and that person texts you back letting you know both are thinking of each other.

Symptom # 6- Different but positive feelings – You have different and positive feelings about the future with that person. Maybe I now have someone to accompany me to my relatives wedding. I will no longer feel out of place or feel alone. Maybe we can take dancing lessons together…I feel so much love for this person, maybe we can live with each other you are now in a relationship and in love- and when you feel well loved

Symptom #7- Healthy relationship- you feel good Being truly in love it energizes you, you are finally in a healthy relationship and when this person makes you feel supported. Being in love and knowing that the other person is in love with you too. You start creating trust. That alone is a miracle right there. Being well loved , gives you a sense of peace, it creates your self-esteem and self-confidence to grow for optimism for the future, it feels more real and you both look forward towards a new excitement for a better future for tomorrow together.

THANK-YOU VERY MUCH FOR LISTENING MY NAME IS ROSA M. LUNA WITH THE ST. PAULS FREE UNIVERSITY AND YOU CAN FIND ME AT ROSA M. LUNA.COM TAKE CARE.