I have a client that would like to keep track of her Boyfriend. Would you like to know how?
Use the 360 app and enter his phone number on the app and follow instructions. There you go!
Be careful that you do not ask him what he was doing at that place for hours for if he finds out he will turn off his phone and you will be more confused and upset not knowing where he was. But if you do not trust that person what the heck are you doing with that person?
What kind of relationship is that? How desperate are you? Really! Is this the kind of relationship you want?
I know you are not happy having this “suspicious mind,” constantly wondering who he could possibly be with. Checking his e-mails, his Facebook and checking his underwear while doing his laundry… Yes, how desperate is that?
But why are you attracting this kind of man? “Law of attraction”, that is why.
How often has this happened? STOP THIS OBSESSION! It will drive you crazy…!
“But it’s hard to find someone, I will feel lonely.”
OK, what should you do? What do you feel you should do? Do you really want to live like this?
No, it does not feel like fun to me. He is not making you happy. Can you change him? Why is he looking for another love?
Maybe he is looking for someone who can give him what he is not receiving at home with you. Remember how that person was when you both first met? What did you guys enjoy doing together? After sex, did you guys talk? Did you share stories, made each other laugh? How’s your communication? Are you approachable still? Or are you always too irritable, no longer easy to talk to? How does he respond to you? Is your Pride interfering with your relationship?
When you are in a relationship it is a give-and-take by both of you and definitely do not count the sins and who has been kinder to whom more of the time.
Try changing your words it might not be easy at first, but the change of words, and trying much more kindness and a different kind of friendship, communication is very important.
Kind words, compliments are good too. If you really want this relationship to work, it takes work in thoughtfulness and kindness.
If you feel the other person is not trying to save this relationship then you have a decision to make. It will hurt at first, but your happiness depends on you.
Unfortunately, it’s your happiness that counts and its a choice you make. No one else can make that choice for you.
God Bless!